Ge\u00e7mi\u015finizi g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irdi\u011finizde \u201c\u015eimdiki akl\u0131m olsayd\u0131\u2026\u201d dedi\u011finiz olur mu hi\u00e7? Ya da b\u00f6yle denildi\u011fine tan\u0131k oldunuz mu? <\/p>\n
Ge\u00e7mi\u015fimizi, ge\u00e7mi\u015fte o g\u00fcnk\u00fc bilgi, deneyim birikimi ve de\u011fer yarg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z de\u011ferlendirmelerimizi, verdi\u011fimiz kararlar\u0131 ve eylemlerimizi bug\u00fcnk\u00fc bilgi, deneyim birikimi ve de\u011fer yarg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zla yeniden g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irdi\u011fimizde \u00e7o\u011fu kez \u201c\u015eimdiki akl\u0131m olsayd\u0131\u2026\u201d demek zorunda kal\u0131r\u0131z.. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yeni \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclerimizle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z de\u011ferlendirme bizi eski de\u011ferlendirmemizin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu, eksik oldu\u011fu, haks\u0131z oldu\u011fu\u2026 sonucuna g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. \u0130\u00e7imizde bir kusurluluk duygusu, y\u00fcrek burkucu bir pi\u015fmanl\u0131k k\u0131p\u0131rdanmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu durumda a\u011fz\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131veren \u201c\u015eimdiki akl\u0131m olsayd\u0131\u2026\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc bazen muhatab\u0131 belirsiz bir \u00f6z\u00fcr dileme beyan\u0131, bazen bir pi\u015fmanl\u0131k \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Her ne kadar \u201cSon pi\u015fmanl\u0131k fayda etmez.\u201d gibi bir s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz var ise de, \u201c\u015eimdiki akl\u0131m olsayd\u0131.\u201d diye ifade edilen pi\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n t\u00fcmden faydas\u0131z oldu\u011fu s\u00f6ylenemez. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte do\u011fru oldu\u011fu san\u0131s\u0131yla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z birtak\u0131m \u015feylerin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu fark etmemiz, ku\u015fkusuz ki bizi yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tekrardan al\u0131koyacakt\u0131r. Bu da bir kazan\u0131md\u0131r. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla birilerine haks\u0131zl\u0131k etti\u011fimizin fark\u0131na varmak bizi ge\u00e7 de olsa onlardan \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemeye, hatalar\u0131m\u0131zdan d\u00f6nmeye y\u00f6nlendirirse, bizi hatalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fczeltmeye y\u00f6nlendirebilirse bu az \u015fey midir?<\/p>\n
\u201c\u015eimdiki akl\u0131m olsayd\u0131\u2026\u201d noktas\u0131na gelmek, bizim ge\u00e7mi\u015fe g\u00f6re daha do\u011fru d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme, daha do\u011fru karar verebilme ve davranabilme konusunda olumlu geli\u015fmeler g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimizi ortaya koyar. Bu geli\u015fmeleri bilgi ve deneyimlerimizin artmas\u0131na bor\u00e7lu oldu\u011fumuz a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r. Cumhuriyet d\u00f6nemimizin yeti\u015ftirdi\u011fi en b\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011ferlerden biri olan U\u011fur MUMCU\u2019nun vurgulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, herhangi bir konuda yeterli bilgi birikimimiz olmadan o konuda do\u011fru fikirler \u00fcretmemiz m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Bilmedi\u011fimiz konularda ortaya att\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z fikirler ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz olarak ya sa\u00e7ma sapan \u015feyler ya da ba\u015fkalar\u0131nca bize ezberletilmi\u015f d\u00fczmecelerdir. En iyisi, bilmedi\u011fimiz konularda biliyormu\u015fuz gibi yaparak sa\u00e7malamak ya da bize ezberletilen d\u00fczmeceleri tekrarlamak yerine \u00fcst\u00fcnde konu\u015fma gere\u011fini duydu\u011fumuz konularda yeterince bilgilendikten sonra d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncemizi a\u00e7\u0131klamak ya da tav\u0131r koymakt\u0131r. B\u00f6yle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u201c\u015eimdiki akl\u0131m olsayd\u0131\u2026\u201d pi\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131na daha az d\u00fc\u015feriz.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u015eimdiki akl\u0131m olsayd\u0131\u2026\u201d noktas\u0131na gelmenin bir faydas\u0131 da yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetimizden de\u011fil, eksik bilgi ve deneyimlerden kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamak ve bunun bizim i\u00e7in oldu\u011fu kadar ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in de insani bir durum oldu\u011funu fark etmek, b\u00f6ylece kendimizi de, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 da ba\u011f\u0131\u015flayabilmektir. Ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamak, affetmek, ho\u015f g\u00f6rmek
\nerdemdir, olgunluktur, b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fckt\u00fcr. \u0130nsana da bu yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ge\u00e7mi\u015finizi g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irdi\u011finizde \u201c\u015eimdiki akl\u0131m olsayd\u0131\u2026\u201d dedi\u011finiz olur mu hi\u00e7? Ya da b\u00f6yle denildi\u011fine tan\u0131k oldunuz mu? Ge\u00e7mi\u015fimizi, ge\u00e7mi\u015fte o g\u00fcnk\u00fc bilgi, deneyim birikimi ve de\u011fer yarg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z de\u011ferlendirmelerimizi, verdi\u011fimiz kararlar\u0131 ve eylemlerimizi bug\u00fcnk\u00fc bilgi, deneyim birikimi ve de\u011fer yarg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zla yeniden g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irdi\u011fimizde \u00e7o\u011fu kez \u201c\u015eimdiki akl\u0131m olsayd\u0131\u2026\u201d demek zorunda kal\u0131r\u0131z.. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yeni \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclerimizle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1027"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1027"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1027\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1028,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1027\/revisions\/1028"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1027"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1027"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1027"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}