{"id":1130,"date":"2021-08-07T18:10:25","date_gmt":"2021-08-07T15:10:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/?p=1130"},"modified":"2021-08-07T18:10:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-07T15:10:25","slug":"dusmanimin-dusmani-benim-dostumdur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/?p=1130","title":{"rendered":"D\u00dc\u015eMANIMIN  D\u00dc\u015eMANI  BEN\u0130M  DOSTUMDUR"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>     G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zda ki\u015filikleri, k\u00fclt\u00fcrleri, menfaatleri, inan\u00e7lar\u0131, d\u00fcnya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri bizimkinden ve birbirlerininkinden az ya da \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 insanlarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r,  \u00e7e\u015fitli nedenlerle mal, hizmet ya da g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f al\u0131\u015fveri\u015finde bulunuruz. Bu al\u0131\u015fveri\u015flerimiz sonunda kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 memnun kal\u0131rsak aram\u0131zda bir yak\u0131nla\u015fma olu\u015fur. Bu yak\u0131nla\u015fma, aram\u0131zda zamanla bir dostlu\u011fa, dayan\u0131\u015fmaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme ya da al\u0131\u015fveri\u015f sonunda kendimizi kand\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, aldat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenmi\u015f, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanm\u0131\u015f hissetmemiz de m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u0130li\u015fkimizin sonucu buysa, bize bu olumsuz duygular\u0131 y\u00fckleyen ki\u015filere kar\u015f\u0131 mesafe koyma gere\u011fini duyar, Onlarla ili\u015fkide  olman\u0131n  gelecekte verebilece\u011fi zararlardan korunmam\u0131z gerekece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, hatta kendisini d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131m\u0131z olarak de\u011ferlendiririz. Dostluklar da, d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131klar da ki\u015filer aras\u0131 ili\u015fkilerin yol a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 en u\u00e7 durumlard\u0131r. <\/p>\n<p>     Ki\u015filer aras\u0131 ili\u015fkiler gibi devletler aras\u0131 ili\u015fkiler de taraflarca gerekti\u011finde g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irilerek tamamen fayda \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcyle de\u011ferlendirilir  ve her devlet bu ili\u015fkilerin getirileriyle g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcleri  aras\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmenin sonucuna bakarak gelecekteki ili\u015fkilerinin planlar\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturur. Bundan dolay\u0131d\u0131r ki devletler aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkiler s\u0131k s\u0131k de\u011fi\u015fik durumlar g\u00f6sterir. Devletler aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkilerde olmas\u0131 gereken de budur! Tabii, ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z devletler aras\u0131nda\u2026 Kendinden g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc devletlere ekonomik, siyasi, ideolojik nedenlerle ya da y\u00f6neticilerinin sat\u0131n al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131 nedeniyle  ba\u011flanm\u0131\u015f, b\u00f6ylece ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yitirmi\u015f devletlerin asla b\u00f6yle bir de\u011ferlendirme olanaklar\u0131 yoktur. Onlar, efendilerini dost ve m\u00fcttefik devlet diye yutturmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar halklar\u0131na ve efendilerinden ald\u0131klar\u0131 buyruklar\u0131 milli irade boyas\u0131yla makyajlay\u0131p yutturmaya \u00e7abalarlar. \u0130nsanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n tarih boyunca ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f binlerce deneyimden \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131 evrensel dersi g\u00f6rmezden, bilmezden gelir, dostumun (!) d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 benim de d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131md\u0131r derler. Devletler aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkilerin dostlukla, d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131kla de\u011fil menfaatlerle belirlendi\u011fi ger\u00e7e\u011fini yok sayarlar.<\/p>\n<p>     \u0130nsanlar, kendilerini d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, iki \u015feyi \u00f6zellikle g\u00f6zetirler: Bunlardan  birincisi, d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n\u0131 olabildi\u011fince yaln\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131rmak ve g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fczle\u015ftirmek, ikincisi ise kendi \u00e7evrelerindeki dost \u00e7emberini olabildi\u011fince geni\u015fletip g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmek!   Ak\u0131ll\u0131 insanlar bunlar\u0131 yaparken, asla kendilerine d\u00fc\u015fman \u00fcretmezler! Aksine,  d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7o\u011faltmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Bunun i\u00e7indir ki, d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131m\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 benim dostumdur diye ifade edilen strateji, tarihsel ve evrensel  de\u011fer kazanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ancak bu strateji, ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z devletler i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erlidir.  Ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 devletlerin stratejileri kendilerince de\u011fil, efendilerince belirlendi\u011finden, onlar ancak efendilerinin talimatlar\u0131yla dostluklar ya da d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131klar geli\u015ftirirler. Bunun i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 gere\u011fi yokken, t\u00fcm kom\u015fular\u0131yla  d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k ili\u015fkileri kurar ve geli\u015ftirirler. B\u00f6ylece b\u00f6lgelerinde yapayaln\u0131z kal\u0131rlar. Bundan dolay\u0131  daha \u00e7ok, daha \u00e7ok silahlanmaya zorunlu olduklar\u0131n\u0131  yuttururlar halklar\u0131na ve tabii, dost (!) \u00fclkelerin silah \u015firketlerinin \u00e7ok de\u011ferli (!) m\u00fc\u015fterileri olurlar. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zda ki\u015filikleri, k\u00fclt\u00fcrleri, menfaatleri, inan\u00e7lar\u0131, d\u00fcnya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri bizimkinden ve birbirlerininkinden az ya da \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 insanlarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r, \u00e7e\u015fitli nedenlerle mal, hizmet ya da g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f al\u0131\u015fveri\u015finde bulunuruz. Bu al\u0131\u015fveri\u015flerimiz sonunda kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 memnun kal\u0131rsak aram\u0131zda bir yak\u0131nla\u015fma olu\u015fur. Bu yak\u0131nla\u015fma, aram\u0131zda zamanla bir dostlu\u011fa, dayan\u0131\u015fmaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme ya da al\u0131\u015fveri\u015f sonunda kendimizi kand\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, aldat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenmi\u015f, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanm\u0131\u015f [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1130"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1130"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1130\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1131,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1130\/revisions\/1131"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1130"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1130"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1130"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}