\u201cKar ya\u011f\u0131yor ya\u011f\u0131yor
\nAbam\u0131 giyece\u011fim
\n\u0130htiyara var\u0131p da
\nBaba m\u0131 diyece\u011fim ?\u201d<\/p>\n
Uzun zamand\u0131r her ya\u015ftaki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ama \u00f6zellikle k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n hasretle bekledi\u011fi kar ya\u011f\u0131\u015f\u0131 nihayet ba\u015flad\u0131. Da\u011f ta\u015f, \u00e7at\u0131, sokak bembeyaz. B\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar gibi i\u00e7imdeki bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc b\u00fcy\u00fcmek bilmeyen neredeyse yetmi\u015flik \u00e7ocuk da g\u00f6k y\u00fcz\u00fcnden s\u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcp gelen her kar tanesi i\u00e7in ayr\u0131 sevin\u00e7 \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131 atarken akl\u0131ma yukar\u0131ya ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m eski bir mani geldi ve kar sevincim yerini bir anda t\u00f6re u\u011fruna hayat\u0131 s\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fclen gencecik, hatta \u00e7ocuk ya\u015ftaki k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131 ald\u0131. <\/p>\n
Elbet bilirsiniz, toplumumuzun \u00e7a\u011flar boyunca ya\u015faya geldi\u011fi, Anadolu\u2019nun pek \u00e7ok yerinde hala b\u00fct\u00fcn vah\u015fetiyle s\u00fcr\u00fcp gelen ve ad\u0131na t\u00f6re denilen a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k anlay\u0131\u015fa g\u00f6re kad\u0131n erkekle e\u015fit de\u011fil, erke\u011fe e\u015f de\u011fil, yaln\u0131zca bir cinsel meta, al\u0131n\u0131p sat\u0131labilen bir nesnedir. Kumad\u0131r, kapatmad\u0131r, metrestir, cariyedir\u2026 Al\u0131n\u0131p sat\u0131labilir, kap\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131 edilebilir. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n , k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n pek \u00e7o\u011funun hen\u00fcz e\u015f se\u00e7me bilinci de, cesareti de, imkan\u0131 da yoktur. Onlar t\u00f6renin esirleri, kurbanlar\u0131d\u0131r. <\/p>\n
Pek \u00e7ok siyaset\u00e7inin ve destek\u00e7ilerinin savundu\u011fu t\u00f6re anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n e\u015f se\u00e7me, be\u011fendi\u011fi birini sevme gibi bir hakk\u0131 yoktur. K\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z ancak ailesinin uygun g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 veren zengin kart horozun veya zengin o\u011flunun yata\u011f\u0131na girebilir. Evlilikte mutsuz olursa baba evine d\u00f6nme ya da bir yerlere gidip kendi yuvas\u0131n\u0131 kurma \u015fans\u0131 ve hakk\u0131 yoktur. B\u00f6ylesi durumlarda t\u00f6re denilen vah\u015fet yasas\u0131 derhal uygulamaya konulur: Kad\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015famaya kalk\u0131\u015fan isyankar, aile meclisince \u00f6l\u00fcme mahkum ve cezas\u0131 ya babas\u0131, ya erkek karde\u015fi ya da terk etti\u011fi kocas\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan bir \u015fekilde infaz edilir. Cellat, art\u0131k bir kahramand\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ailenin namusunu (!) temizlemi\u015ftir. O k\u00fclt\u00fcre g\u00f6re k\u0131z evlad\u0131n, k\u0131z karde\u015fin ba\u015fl\u0131k denilen para kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda d\u00fcped\u00fcz paral\u0131 pisliklere sat\u0131lmas\u0131 namussuzluk de\u011fildir de k\u0131z\u0131n, kad\u0131n\u0131n sat\u0131lmay\u0131, kumal\u0131\u011f\u0131, kapatmal\u0131\u011f\u0131, metresli\u011fi reddedip kendi e\u015fini kendi se\u00e7meye kalk\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 namussuzluktur. <\/p>\n
Kad\u0131n\u0131 namus u\u011fruna katletmeyi \u00f6ng\u00f6ren k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn ya da t\u00f6re denilen vah\u015fetin iki aya\u011f\u0131 vard\u0131r: Biri kad\u0131n\u0131n ruhsal ve cinsel beklentilerini kar\u015f\u0131layamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark eden zengin kart horozlar\u0131n \u015f\u00fcphecili\u011fi, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131, di\u011feri ise k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 sevdi\u011fiyle evlendirmek yerine onu d\u00fcped\u00fcz hayvan gibi sat\u0131l\u0131k eden ilkel ailenin a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7\u0131karc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131. Bu iki aya\u011f\u0131n i\u015fbirli\u011finin ad\u0131 da t\u00f6redir. Onlara g\u00f6re t\u00f6re yani a\u011fal\u0131k ve cehalet d\u00fczeni korunmal\u0131d\u0131r ki zengin kart horozlar kendi k\u0131zlar\u0131, hatta torunlar\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 istedikleri zaman el alt\u0131nda bulundurabilsinler. Zavall\u0131 k\u0131zlar\u0131n bu i\u011fren\u00e7li\u011fe kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kma olanaklar\u0131 bulunmas\u0131n. Ve yoksul aileler, k\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 sat\u0131p \u00fc\u00e7 be\u015f kuru\u015f elde etme olana\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yitirmesinler. Bunun i\u00e7in de yoksulluk d\u00fczeni ve cehalet devam etmelidir, t\u00f6reyi koruma ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda cehalet ortam\u0131 yayg\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bilin\u00e7lenmeleri, kendi ayaklar\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcnde ya\u015fayabilecekleri bilgi ve beceriye, mesle\u011fe sahip olmalar\u0131, parayla al\u0131n\u0131p sat\u0131labilecek \u00e7aresiz, savunmas\u0131z varl\u0131klar de\u011fil, b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlarla e\u015fit haklara sahip insan olduklar\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131na varmalar\u0131 engellenmelidir. <\/p>\n
Ne mutlu ki \u00fclkemizin bat\u0131 b\u00f6lgelerinde bu kara zihniyet \u00f6nemli \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde a\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc sat\u0131l\u0131k nesneler olmaktan kurtulmu\u015f ve kendi e\u015flerini se\u00e7me olana\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bulmu\u015flard\u0131r. Ancak toprak m\u00fclkiyetinin hala a\u011falara, \u015feyhlere ait oldu\u011fu yerlerde kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z, k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z kendilerine sahip olamamakta, ba\u015fl\u0131k adl\u0131 bedel kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda al\u0131n\u0131p sat\u0131lmakta ve isyana yeltendiklerinde t\u00f6re gere\u011fi gerek\u00e7esiyle \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclebilmektedirler. \u00dclkeyi y\u00f6netenlerin iktidarlar\u0131n\u0131 koruma kayg\u0131s\u0131yla bu durumu g\u00f6rmezden gelmeleri insani de\u011fildir, hukuki de\u011fildir, ahlaki de\u011fildir. Bu d\u00fczene g\u00f6z yumanlar\u0131n, bu d\u00fczene g\u00f6z yumanlara oy vererek onlar\u0131 destekleyenlerin namustan, ahlaktan, manevi de\u011ferlerden s\u00f6z etme haklar\u0131 yoktur. B\u00f6yle davrananlar\u0131n t\u00fcm\u00fc, her g\u00fcn t\u00f6re gere\u011fi \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclen \u00fc\u00e7-be\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n katilleri kadar su\u00e7ludur, elleri kanl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201cKar ya\u011f\u0131yor ya\u011f\u0131yor Abam\u0131 giyece\u011fim \u0130htiyara var\u0131p da Baba m\u0131 diyece\u011fim ?\u201d Uzun zamand\u0131r her ya\u015ftaki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ama \u00f6zellikle k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n hasretle bekledi\u011fi kar ya\u011f\u0131\u015f\u0131 nihayet ba\u015flad\u0131. Da\u011f ta\u015f, \u00e7at\u0131, sokak bembeyaz. B\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar gibi i\u00e7imdeki bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc b\u00fcy\u00fcmek bilmeyen neredeyse yetmi\u015flik \u00e7ocuk da g\u00f6k y\u00fcz\u00fcnden s\u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcp gelen her kar tanesi i\u00e7in ayr\u0131 sevin\u00e7 \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1144"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1144"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1144\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1145,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1144\/revisions\/1145"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1144"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1144"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1144"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}