\u201cSay\u0131n\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, dilimizin en g\u00fczel s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerinden biridir. Bir ki\u015finin ad\u0131ndan \u00f6nce kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bu s\u00f6zc\u00fck, ad\u0131 ge\u00e7enin sayg\u0131ya de\u011fer oldu\u011fundan, yani d\u00fcr\u00fcst, \u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6z\u00fc bir oldu\u011fundan, bireylere ve topluma zarar verme e\u011filiminin bulunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n t\u00fcm olumlu niteliklerine sahip oldu\u011fundan\u2026 k\u0131sacas\u0131 erdemli oldu\u011fundan emin bulundu\u011fumuzu ifade eder. Bu nedenle, yaln\u0131zca ger\u00e7ekten sayg\u0131 de\u011fer kimseler i\u00e7in kullanmam\u0131z gereken \u201csay\u0131n\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bu s\u0131fat\u0131 hak etmeyenlerin adlar\u0131ndan \u00f6nce kullanmam\u0131z, bizim de\u011ferlerimize inanan, g\u00fcvenen insanlar\u0131 s\u00f6z konusu kimsenin ki\u015fili\u011fine kefil oldu\u011fumuz yan\u0131lg\u0131s\u0131na d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrebilir. <\/p>\n
Bir\u00e7ok insan, ger\u00e7ekte hi\u00e7 sayg\u0131 duymad\u0131klar\u0131 kimselerden s\u00f6z ederken \u201csay\u0131n\u201d
\ns\u0131fat\u0131n\u0131 kullanmay\u0131 nezaketten \u00e7ok bir zorunluluk sayarlar. Bunu en \u00e7ok yapanlar da politikac\u0131lard\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ekte hi\u00e7 sayg\u0131 duymad\u0131klar\u0131, kanl\u0131 b\u0131\u00e7akl\u0131 olduklar\u0131 rakiplerinden s\u00f6z ederken \u00e7o\u011fu kez s\u00f6ze \u201csay\u0131n \u2026\u201d diye ba\u015flar, sonra say\u0131n diye and\u0131klar\u0131 ki\u015finin t\u00fcm faullerini, t\u00fcm frikiklerini, t\u00fcm ay\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131ra \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ra sayar d\u00f6kerler. Sizleri bilemem ama ben bu t\u00fcr konu\u015fmalar\u0131 art\u0131k dinleyemiyorum. Neden mi? Konu\u015fmac\u0131lar\u0131n bu s\u00f6zlerini \u00e7ok \u00e7eli\u015fkili buluyorum da ondan! Adama hem h\u0131rs\u0131z, ahlaks\u0131z, hem de \u201cSay\u0131n \u2026\u201d diyeceksiniz! Ben, sizin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcze g\u00fcvenerek adam\u0131n h\u0131rs\u0131z m\u0131, ahlaks\u0131z m\u0131,
\n yoksa sayg\u0131de\u011fer oldu\u011funa m\u0131 inanaca\u011f\u0131m? Olur i\u015f mi bu yani? <\/p>\n
Ki\u015filer, toplumdaki yerleri ve de\u011ferleri ne olursa olsun, sonu\u00e7 olarak birer varl\u0131kt\u0131rlar ve herkes gibi, her \u015fey gibi ya\u015fam haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu hak, var olmaktan kaynaklan\u0131r. Ancak, var olmak, sayg\u0131de\u011fer olmak i\u00e7in elbet yeterli de\u011fildir. Sayg\u0131de\u011ferlik, do\u011fu\u015ftan gelen bir nitelik de\u011fil, insan\u0131n h\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131, bencilli\u011fini, \u00f6fkesini denetim alt\u0131nda tutabilme ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n, imkanlar\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7 sahipleriyle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k beklenmeksizin payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 iradesinin bir getirisidir. <\/p>\n
Yaz\u0131k ki insan k\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 canl\u0131lar\u0131n \u00f6nemli bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc hen\u00fcz erdemlilik, ba\u015fka bir deyi\u015fle sayg\u0131nl\u0131k d\u00fczeyinde evrimle\u015fememi\u015ftir. Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 bencilliklerinin, libidolar\u0131n\u0131n, egolar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcd\u00fcm\u00fcnden, damgas\u0131ndan, bi\u00e7imlendirmesinden kurtulamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Hak, adalet, hukuk, ahlak, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck, e\u015fitlik, s\u00f6z\u00fcnde dururluk v.b. de\u011ferler onlar\u0131n dilinde birer takiyye malzemesinden ba\u015fka bir anlam ta\u015f\u0131maz. B\u00f6yleleri, g\u00f6reve ba\u015flarken canlar\u0131 pahas\u0131na koruma yemini ettikleri de\u011ferleri, \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131 gerektirdi\u011finde ayaklar\u0131 alt\u0131na almakta bir an bile duraksamazlar. Uygun fiyat bulduklar\u0131nda kendi analar\u0131 da dahil olmak \u00fczere satamayacaklar\u0131 hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yoktur. Vatan topra\u011f\u0131 da, vatanda\u015f kan\u0131 da, ulusal de\u011ferler de meslek ve insanl\u0131k onurlar\u0131 da onlar i\u00e7in al\u0131n\u0131p sat\u0131labilir \u015feylerdir. Onlar, emperyalistlerle ulustan gizli hizmet s\u00f6zle\u015fmeleri yapmaktan diplomatik gurur duyarlar. Onlar, yurt i\u00e7inde en ya\u011fl\u0131 sofralarda \u00e7anak yalamay\u0131, ya\u011fl\u0131 sofra sahiplerini devletin \u015femsiyesi alt\u0131na al\u0131p kendilerini de o sofra sahiplerinin \u015femsiyeleri alt\u0131na s\u0131\u011f\u0131narak kendileri ve s\u00fclaleleri i\u00e7in \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu gelecek ve onur stoklad\u0131klar\u0131na inan\u0131rlar. B\u00f6ylesi ki\u015filer bir yolunu bulup halk\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnde muteber makamlara t\u0131rmand\u0131lar diye ger\u00e7ekten sayg\u0131n m\u0131 oluyorlar yani? Elbet de hay\u0131r! Ne diyordu Ziya Pa\u015fa bir beytinde: \u201cBed asla necabet mi verir hi\u00e7 \u00fcniforma? Zerduz palan ursan, e\u015fek yine e\u015fektir!\u201d Ne demekti bu? \u201c Makam, r\u00fctbe asl\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc olana asla sayg\u0131nl\u0131k kazand\u0131rmaz! Nas\u0131l ki s\u0131rt\u0131na alt\u0131n semer koymakla e\u015fe\u011fi e\u015feklikten \u00e7\u0131karamazsan\u0131z!\u201d <\/p>\n
\u00d6zetlemek gerekirse, yetkilerini, n\u00fcfuzlar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fcye kullanarak ki\u015fisel ve siyasal \u00e7\u0131karlar sa\u011flama yolunda kullanan, kendilerinin ve efendilerinin, yanda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n ve yalakalar\u0131n\u0131n su\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131, h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rtbas eden, verdikleri s\u00f6zlerin gere\u011fini yapmayan, devletin, halk\u0131n ve yetimlerin haklar\u0131n\u0131 hap\u0131r hupur yalay\u0131p yutan, sonra da takiyye ile kendini d\u00fcnyaya kahraman diye yutturmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan kimselerden \u201cSay\u0131n\u2026\u201d diye s\u00f6z etmeyi her \u015feyden \u00f6nce ne dedi\u011fini bilmezlik olarak, dilimize sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k olarak de\u011ferlendiriyorum. \u0130nsanl\u0131ktan uzak olanlara \u201csay\u0131n\u201d demek bir yasal zorunluluk olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, nezaket gere\u011fi de de\u011fildir. <\/p>\n
O halde \u201csay\u0131n\u201d s\u0131fat\u0131n\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten \u201csay\u0131n\u201d olmayanlar i\u00e7in asla kullanmamal\u0131y\u0131z! K\u0131rda, \u00e7ay\u0131rda, bay\u0131rda otlayan hayvanlara say\u0131n at, say\u0131n e\u015fek, say\u0131n deve denilmesinde elbet hi\u00e7bir sak\u0131nca yok, ama bir yolunu bulup bir yetkiyi gasp, bir makam\u0131 i\u015fgal ederek \u201cRabbena, hep bana!\u201d duas\u0131n\u0131 okumakta olanlara HAYIR! \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar asla \u201csay\u0131n\u2026\u201d de\u011fil. May\u0131n, may\u0131n! Hepsi may\u0131n!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201cSay\u0131n\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, dilimizin en g\u00fczel s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerinden biridir. Bir ki\u015finin ad\u0131ndan \u00f6nce kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bu s\u00f6zc\u00fck, ad\u0131 ge\u00e7enin sayg\u0131ya de\u011fer oldu\u011fundan, yani d\u00fcr\u00fcst, \u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6z\u00fc bir oldu\u011fundan, bireylere ve topluma zarar verme e\u011filiminin bulunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n t\u00fcm olumlu niteliklerine sahip oldu\u011fundan\u2026 k\u0131sacas\u0131 erdemli oldu\u011fundan emin bulundu\u011fumuzu ifade eder. Bu nedenle, yaln\u0131zca ger\u00e7ekten sayg\u0131 de\u011fer kimseler i\u00e7in kullanmam\u0131z gereken […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1154"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1154"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1154\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1155,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1154\/revisions\/1155"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1154"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1154"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1154"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}