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“Pehlivaaan, pehlivan;”<\/p>\n
“Alta d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm diye yerinme, \u00fcste \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m diye sevinme…”<\/p>\n
Cazg\u0131r\u0131n\u00a0 bu uyar\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6zleriyle ba\u015flayan g\u00fcre\u015f, sonucu \u00f6nceden bilinemeyen, k\u0131ran k\u0131rana bir bo\u011fu\u015fmad\u0131r bir yar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc t\u00fcm g\u00fcre\u015f\u00e7iler o\u00a0 anda ba\u015flayacak g\u00fcre\u015f i\u00e7in kendilerini g\u00fcnler, haftalar, hatta aylar y\u0131llar boyunca \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p haz\u0131rlam\u0131\u015f, t\u00fcm olanaklar\u0131n\u0131 kullanarak,\u00a0 kendileri\u00a0 gibi h\u0131rsla haz\u0131rlan\u0131p gelen rakipleriyle g\u00fcre\u015fe tutu\u015facak, ya hayal ettikleri sonuca ula\u015facak ya da rakiplerinin beklenmedik oyunlar\u0131yla ans\u0131z\u0131n tu\u015f olup yenik d\u00fc\u015feceklerdir.<\/p>\n
Yenilen g\u00fcre\u015f\u00e7ilerle yanda\u015flar\u0131 olan seyircileri o anda derin bir \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcye,\u00a0 yenen g\u00fcre\u015f\u00e7i ve yanda\u015flar\u0131 ise kendilerini ba\u015f d\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc bir\u00a0 sevin\u00e7 r\u00fczgar\u0131na kapt\u0131racaklard\u0131r.\u00a0 Ne var ki taraftar seyircilerin sevin\u00e7leri de kederleri de birka\u00e7 dakika i\u00e7inde s\u00f6n\u00fcp giderken g\u00fcre\u015f\u00e7iler orada, o anda ba\u015flayan\u00a0 ac\u0131 ya da havaland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 duyguyu en az bir y\u0131l i\u00e7lerinde\u00a0 ta\u015f\u0131yacaklard\u0131r…<\/p>\n
Bunda \u015fa\u015facak bir \u015fey yok; “\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc senin derdin senin derdin, benim derdim benim derdimdir.” “El elin e\u015fe\u011fini\u00a0 \u0131sl\u0131k \u00e7alarak arar v.s. .”\u00a0 \u00f6rne\u011findeki gibi. Taraftarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fcstlenmi\u015f kimseler i\u00e7in desteklenecek pehlivan k\u0131tl\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0131 var? Oysa yenilmi\u015f ki\u015finin\u00a0 yeri ne onun kederini \u00fcstlenecek ba\u015fka\u00a0 ki\u015fi yok!<\/p>\n
Meydandaki ya da minderdeki g\u00fcre\u015f\u00e7iler gibi biz\u00a0 seyirciler de g\u00fcre\u015f\u00e7iyiz asl\u0131nda,\u00a0 ama bizim g\u00fcre\u015fimiz \u00f6yle minderlerde, \u00e7ay\u0131rlarda de\u011fil, i\u00e7imizde, beynimizde, hayat\u0131m\u0131zdad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ba\u015fkalar\u0131nca s\u00fcr\u00fcklendi\u011fimiz t\u00fct\u00fcn, alkol, kumar, zaman harcay\u0131c\u0131 oyunlar ve benzeri k\u00f6t\u00fc al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n mallar\u0131n\u0131 bizimmi\u015f gibi kullanmaya kalk\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z,\u00a0 dedikodu yay\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla\u00a0 \u00e7evremizdeki iyi, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fkan, k\u00fclt\u00fcrl\u00fc, \u00e7ok okuyan, iyi dinleyici,\u00a0 vaktini ve enerjisini hi\u00e7 israf etmeksizin en verimli ve yararl\u0131 kullanan insanlar\u0131 toplumun g\u00f6z\u00fcnde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclterek kendimize zirvelerde yer a\u00e7ma \u00e7abalar\u0131m\u0131z gibi al\u00e7alt\u0131c\u0131 e\u011filimlerimiz, bizim i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyam\u0131zda\u00a0 taht\u00a0 kurmu\u015f rakiplerimizdir. \u0130\u00e7imizdeki en b\u00fcy\u00fck rakiplerimizden biri de bizim yerimize vekaleten ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131\u00a0 d\u00f6v\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcp\u00a0 bizi kurtarmas\u0131 beklentisidir.<\/p>\n
\u0130\u00e7 d\u00fcnyam\u0131zdaki g\u00fcre\u015fte g\u00f6revli hakemler, davulcular da\u00a0 yok,\u00a0 uyar\u0131c\u0131 cazg\u0131ralar da.\u00a0 Uyulmas\u0131\u00a0 beklenen kurallar da yok.\u00a0 Bizi uyarmaya kalk\u0131\u015fanlara kar\u015f\u0131, “Al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f\u0131m, yapam\u0131yorum, b\u0131rakam\u0131yorum, vaz ge\u00e7emiyorum, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerimiz de b\u00f6yle\u00a0 yapard\u0131,\u00a0 buna benim g\u00fcc\u00fcm yetmez.”\u00a0 demek\u00a0 gibi aptalca s\u0131\u011f\u0131naklar\u0131n ard\u0131na saklan\u0131yoruz.\u00a0 Bu s\u0131\u011f\u0131naklar\u0131n ard\u0131na saklanmaksa bizim s\u0131rt\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z boyunca yere yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r, bizi bencil nefsimize\u00a0 yenik tutar, kendi zaaflar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n esiri eder.<\/p>\n
Hi\u00e7 de ho\u015f bir durum de\u011fildir bu. Ac\u0131nas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu durumdan kurtulu\u015fumuzu sa\u011flayacak hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey, hi\u00e7 bir kimse yok kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda, \u00e7evremizde. \u015eu evrende bizi\u00a0 kendi\u00a0 k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczden kurtarabilecek tek g\u00fc\u00e7 yine kendimiziz. Bu zay\u0131fl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp bizi uyarmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan iyi insanlardan gelen uyar\u0131lar\u0131 te\u015fekk\u00fcrlerle kar\u015f\u0131lamak yerine o insanlara kar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fmanca tepki g\u00f6stermek de ba\u015fka bir k\u00f6t\u00fc\u00a0 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z.<\/p>\n
Evet sevgili insanlar, kendimize, daha do\u011frusu benli\u011fimizi do\u011fu\u015ftan\u00a0 \u00f6nce i\u015fgal etmi\u015f BENC\u0130LL\u0130\u011e\u0130M\u0130ZE KAR\u015eI M\u00dcCADELEM\u0130Z\u0130 KAZANAB\u0130LMEK, yani kendimizle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bu amans\u0131z g\u00fcre\u015fte ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olabilmek i\u00e7in her t\u00fcrl\u00fc insani ili\u015fkide kendimizle birlikte t\u00fcm insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n, t\u00fcm canl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n, t\u00fcm varl\u0131klar\u0131n yarar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zetmek gerekmektedir.<\/p>\n
Buna galiba ERDEM deniliyor.<\/p>\n
Ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z boyunca EN BA\u015e PEHL\u0130VAN olabilmenin tek yolu kendimizi, yani bencilli\u011fimizi\u00a0 yenebilmektir. Bunu elbet ba\u015farabiliriz.\u00a0 Ne var ki, bu, insan\u0131n en y\u00fcksek makam\u0131 say\u0131lacak kadar y\u00fcksek, kalabal\u0131k bir sofrada meyve\u00a0 taba\u011f\u0131ndaki en g\u00f6z al\u0131c\u0131\u00a0 meyveye el uzatmayacak kadar kontroll\u00fc davranmay\u0131 gerektiren bir g\u00fc\u00e7t\u00fcr. Anne ve babalar\u0131n\u0131 yitirmi\u015f insanlar\u0131n miras kavgalar\u0131na tan\u0131k olanlar\u0131n ne demek istedi\u011fimi daha iyi anlayacaklar\u0131n\u0131 san\u0131yorum…<\/p>\n
Herkesin EN BA\u015e PEHL\u0130VAN OLAB\u0130LMES\u0130 D\u0130LE\u011e\u0130YLE\u00a0 SEVG\u0130LER, SAYGILAR sunuyorum.<\/p>\n
2 EK\u0130M 2025, Remzi KISA. Kocap\u0131nar –\u00a0 G\u00f6nen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
“Pehlivaaan, pehlivan;” “Alta d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm diye yerinme, \u00fcste \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m diye sevinme…” Cazg\u0131r\u0131n\u00a0 bu uyar\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6zleriyle ba\u015flayan g\u00fcre\u015f, sonucu \u00f6nceden bilinemeyen, k\u0131ran k\u0131rana bir bo\u011fu\u015fmad\u0131r bir yar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc t\u00fcm g\u00fcre\u015f\u00e7iler o\u00a0 anda ba\u015flayacak g\u00fcre\u015f i\u00e7in kendilerini g\u00fcnler, haftalar, hatta aylar y\u0131llar boyunca \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p haz\u0131rlam\u0131\u015f, t\u00fcm olanaklar\u0131n\u0131 kullanarak,\u00a0 kendileri\u00a0 gibi h\u0131rsla haz\u0131rlan\u0131p gelen rakipleriyle g\u00fcre\u015fe tutu\u015facak, ya […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2041"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2041"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2041\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2057,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2041\/revisions\/2057"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2041"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2041"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2041"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}