Korona insanl\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f belas\u0131 kesildikten bu yana\u00a0 \u00fc\u00e7 milyonu a\u015fk\u0131n ki\u015fiyi aram\u0131zdan \u00e7ekip ald\u0131. Cinsiyet, milliyet,\u00a0 ya\u015f, ba\u015f,\u00a0 dil, din, \u0131rk, s\u0131n\u0131f, vars\u0131ll\u0131k,\u00a0 yoksulluk, okumu\u015fluk, cehalet… gibi hi\u00e7 bir ayr\u0131m yapmadan \u00f6n\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131kan\u0131n ci\u011ferine yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Yer\u00a0 y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki b\u00fct\u00fcn dillerde dualar ederek, milyarlarca m\u00fc’minin\u00a0 yakar\u0131\u015flar\u0131na prim vermeden, kara t\u0131rpan\u0131n\u0131\u00a0 savura savura dola\u015f\u0131p duruyor d\u00fcnyay\u0131. \u00d6yle\u00a0 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor ki belirsiz\u00a0 bir s\u00fcre daha da dola\u015f\u0131p duracak. MESAFE, MASKE, TEM\u0130ZL\u0130K kurallar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nemsemeyen pek \u00e7ok ki\u015fiyi daha toplay\u0131p g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek \u00f6telere.<\/p>\n
D\u00fcnyan\u0131n t\u00fcm \u00fclkelerindeki\u00a0 y\u00f6neticileri, yurta\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 pandemiden korumak i\u00e7in t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u00f6nlemleri g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irip uygulamaya koydularsa da sonunda\u00a0 bilim kurullar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nerdi\u011fi savunma\u00a0 y\u00f6ntemlerini uygulamak zorunda kald\u0131lar. Bunlardan en etkili olanlar\u0131ndan biri, insanlar\u0131 sosyal ili\u015fkilerden uzak tutmak oldu. Ne idi sosyal ili\u015fkiler? Kom\u015fuluk, akrabal\u0131k, arkada\u015fl\u0131k, toplu ibadet, toplu seyahat,\u00a0 cenaze, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn, asker u\u011furlama, al\u0131\u015f veri\u015f, e\u011fitim… gibi,\u00a0 kalabal\u0131klar\u0131n olu\u015fmas\u0131na meydan verecek nedenleri yasaklamak.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsanlar\u00a0 g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerini, i\u015fittiklerini, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerini ba\u015fkalar\u0131na s\u00f6ylemek, yap\u0131p ettiklerini\u00a0\u00a0ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla konu\u015farak, g\u00f6stererek\u00a0 anlatmak;\u00a0 ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yap\u0131p ettiklerini, payla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 hakk\u0131ndaki de\u011ferleri ele\u015ftirmek gibi\u00a0 zorunluluklar\u0131 dile getirmek isterler. Bu isteklerini ancak g\u00fcnl\u00fck sosyal ili\u015fkilerle, y\u00fcz y\u00fcze konu\u015farak\u00a0 ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirebilirler. Bu y\u00fcz y\u00fcze konu\u015fmalar, insanlar\u0131n kendilerini anlatmak ve kar\u015f\u0131lar\u0131ndakini anlamak gibi psikolojik gereksinmelerini de kar\u015f\u0131lamak gibi insani gereksinmelerini giderirler. Jimnastik gibi, \u00e7e\u015fitli sporlar gibi, y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fler gibi etkinlikler de insanlar\u0131n hem bedensel gereksinmelerini, hem \u00f6zg\u00fcvenlerini geli\u015ftirmek gibi psikolojik\u00a0 gereksinmelerini kar\u015f\u0131larlar.<\/p>\n
Koronavir\u00fcs bula\u015f\u0131m\u0131ndan korunma ama\u00e7l\u0131 kapanmalar ku\u015fku yok y\u00fcz y\u00fcze ileti\u015fimlerin getirece\u011fi bula\u015f\u0131lar\u0131 engeller ki bu tart\u0131\u015fmas\u0131z bir kazan\u0131md\u0131r. ancak bu kazan\u0131m ister istemez\u00a0 konu\u015fma yetene\u011fimizi geriletir. Ben bunu ki\u015fisel deneyimlerimden \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015f bulunuyorum. Nas\u0131l m\u0131?<\/p>\n
\u0130\u015fte \u015f\u00f6yle: Aile bireylerimiz aras\u0131ndaki konu\u015fmalar ister istemez aile ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zla ilgili ve s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. Konular ve c\u00fcmleler dostlar aras\u0131ndaki s\u00f6yle\u015filer ve tart\u0131\u015fmalar gibi geni\u015flemeye elveri\u015fli de\u011fildir. Bu durum konu\u015fma yetene\u011fimi d\u00fcped\u00fcz geriletiyor.<\/p>\n
Az g\u00f6r\u00fclen arkada\u015flar\u0131n adlar\u0131n\u0131 unutmak ayr\u0131 bir dert. Arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131n adlar\u0131n\u0131\u00a0 unutmam asla onlara kar\u015f\u0131 besledi\u011fim sevgi ve sayg\u0131m\u0131n azalmas\u0131ndan de\u011fildir. Daha\u00a0 s\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015febilsek\u00a0 \u00a0belle\u011fim beni bu kadar \u00fczmeyecek san\u0131yorum. Ya\u015f\u0131m gere\u011fi g\u00fcnl\u00fck y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015flerim hayli zamand\u0131r haftada bir saate d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Sonu\u00e7 ne mi? Bu y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f her hafta biraz daha zorla\u015f\u0131yor.\u00a0 Sevgili e\u015fimin \u0131srarlar\u0131 olmasa bu haftal\u0131k y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f de programdan \u00e7ekip gidecek. Hele ki bol bol kitap okuma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m var<\/p>\n
G\u00f6z\u00fc \u00e7\u0131kas\u0131\u00a0 pandemi,\u00a0 sen olmasan benim ya\u015fam d\u00fczenim b\u00f6yle mi bozulacakt\u0131? G\u00fcnl\u00fck y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015flerim haftada bir saate mi d\u00fc\u015fecekti? Dur sen hele, \u015fu ev hapsi cezalar\u0131 bir bitsin; y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015flerimi haftada birden her g\u00fcn bir saate \u00e7\u0131karay\u0131m, bakal\u0131m kim tutar beni… F\u0131rsat bulduk\u00e7a y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fler yapmay\u0131 ve \u00e7ok \u00e7ok okumay\u0131 herkese \u00f6neririm<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Korona insanl\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f belas\u0131 kesildikten bu yana\u00a0 \u00fc\u00e7 milyonu a\u015fk\u0131n ki\u015fiyi aram\u0131zdan \u00e7ekip ald\u0131. Cinsiyet, milliyet,\u00a0 ya\u015f, ba\u015f,\u00a0 dil, din, \u0131rk, s\u0131n\u0131f, vars\u0131ll\u0131k,\u00a0 yoksulluk, okumu\u015fluk, cehalet… gibi hi\u00e7 bir ayr\u0131m yapmadan \u00f6n\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131kan\u0131n ci\u011ferine yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Yer\u00a0 y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki b\u00fct\u00fcn dillerde dualar ederek, milyarlarca m\u00fc’minin\u00a0 yakar\u0131\u015flar\u0131na prim vermeden, kara t\u0131rpan\u0131n\u0131\u00a0 savura savura dola\u015f\u0131p duruyor d\u00fcnyay\u0131. \u00d6yle\u00a0 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/945"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=945"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/945\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":949,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/945\/revisions\/949"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=945"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=945"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=945"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}