\u201c- O i\u015fi sen mi yapacaks\u0131n? G\u00fcleyim bari..\u201d
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\n\u201c- Sen aptal\u0131n tekisin be karde\u015fim, o i\u015fi ba\u015farmak kiiiim, sen kim?\u201d
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\n\u201c-Sus, aptal, sen zaten ne bilirsin ki?, Ne yapabilirsin ki?\u201d
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\n\u201c- Mankafa, gerzek, dumkof, beceriksiz\u2026\u201d
\nHangimiz \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzda evimizde, okulumuzda, gen\u00e7li\u011fimizde \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u015f yerlerinde arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zdan, ustalar\u0131m\u0131zdan, i\u015fverenlerimizden ya da rakiplerimizden b\u00f6ylesine k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131, y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131, kendimize g\u00fcvenimizi sars\u0131c\u0131 darbeler almad\u0131k? Bu han\u00e7erleri kalbimize saplayanlara sorarsan\u0131z ama\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n bizi ele\u015ftirmek, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya, ba\u015far\u0131ya y\u00f6neltmek oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylerler. \u0130yi niyetlerinden ku\u015fku yok elbet, ancak sonuca bak\u0131l\u0131rsa bize y\u00f6nelttikleri ele\u015ftirilerin \u00fcslubu ve s\u00f6z malzemesiyle g\u00f6nl\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc delik de\u015fik ettikleri, \u00f6zg\u00fcvenimizi yere serdikleri, tabir caizse ka\u015f yapay\u0131m derken g\u00f6z \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131klar\u0131 apa\u00e7\u0131k ortada. \u00d6yle ki, \u00f6zg\u00fcvenimiz yok oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in art\u0131k hangi i\u015fi yapmam\u0131z \u00f6nerilse \u201cOlmaz yahu, ben yapamam efendim, bu i\u015f beni a\u015far karde\u015fim\u2026\u201d gibi ac\u0131nas\u0131 s\u00f6zler e\u015fli\u011finde teslim bayra\u011f\u0131n\u0131 an\u0131nda g\u00f6ndere \u00e7ekiveririz. Bu teslimiyetlerimiz i\u015flerin g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir muhasebenin, bizim g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fczle i\u015fin hacminin kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 sonucunda var\u0131lan ger\u00e7ek yarg\u0131n\u0131n sonucu de\u011fil, \u00e7evremizin bize pe\u015fin pe\u015fin kabul ettirdi\u011fi bir yetersizlik duygusunun ifadesidir. D\u00fcped\u00fcz bir psikolojik sorundur. <\/p>\n
\u00c7evremize dikkatlice bakarsak bizim yapmay\u0131 g\u00f6ze alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z nice i\u015fi bir\u00e7ok ki\u015finin hi\u00e7 zorlanmadan yapa geldiklerini g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. \u00dcstelik bu insanlar\u0131n fizik\u00e7e, ruh\u00e7a, bilgi ve beceri birikimleriyle bizden \u00e7ok da farkl\u0131 olmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 fark ederiz. Pekiyi, nas\u0131l oluyor da onlar bizim g\u00f6ze alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u015fleri yapma cesaretini kendilerinde bulabiliyorlar?
\nEvet, onlar bu cesareti kendilerinde bulabiliyorlar, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc y\u00fcreklerine
\nBizim y\u00fcreklerimize saplanan han\u00e7erler saplanmam\u0131\u015f. Onlara \u201cSen aptals\u0131n, gerzeksin, sen yapamazs\u0131n\u2026\u201d gibi s\u00f6zler en a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyici bi\u00e7imde s\u00f6ylenmemi\u015f. En k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck kusurlar\u0131 f\u0131rsat bilinerek
\nyerin dibine bat\u0131r\u0131lmam\u0131\u015flar. Onlar\u0131n beyinlerine, dillerine \u201cyapamam, edemem, bilemem, beceremem\u2026\u201d gibi s\u00f6zc\u00fckler kaz\u0131nmam\u0131\u015f. Onlar kendilerini yapamamaya, bilememeye\u2026 mahkum etmiyorlar. Onlar kendilerine g\u00fcveniyorlar. Sorun bu kadar basit asl\u0131nda. Yeter ki dilimizden, beynimizden , y\u00fcre\u011fimizden \u015fu \u201cyapamam, edemem, bilemem \u2026 \u201c gibi marazi s\u00f6zc\u00fckleri silip atal\u0131m. Pekiyi, biz bunu yapabilir miyiz? Elbet yapar\u0131z. Bizim, onlardan neyimiz eksik? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201c- O i\u015fi sen mi yapacaks\u0131n? G\u00fcleyim bari..\u201d \u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026 \u201c- Sen aptal\u0131n tekisin be karde\u015fim, o i\u015fi ba\u015farmak kiiiim, sen kim?\u201d \u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026 \u201c-Sus, aptal, sen zaten ne bilirsin ki?, Ne yapabilirsin ki?\u201d \u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026 \u201c- Mankafa, gerzek, dumkof, beceriksiz\u2026\u201d Hangimiz \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzda evimizde, okulumuzda, gen\u00e7li\u011fimizde \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u015f yerlerinde arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zdan, ustalar\u0131m\u0131zdan, i\u015fverenlerimizden ya da rakiplerimizden b\u00f6ylesine k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131, y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/989"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=989"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/989\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":990,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/989\/revisions\/990"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=989"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=989"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kocapinarnotlarim.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=989"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}